"My memory is nearly
gone; but I remember two things;
That I am a great sinner,
and that Christ is a great Savior."
- John Newton (1725-1807)
“For you will not delight in sacrifice, or I would give it;
you will not be pleased with a
burnt offering.
The
sacrifices of God are a broken spirit;
a broken and contrite heart, O God,
you will not despise”
(Psalm 51:16-17)
As much as we use the word
success, I was surprised at how vague the Webster Dictionary’s definition
is. Here it is:
“a: degree or measure of
succeeding.
b:
favorable or desired outcome; also;
the attainment of wealth, favor or eminence.”
As I dug around looking for a clearer definitiaon, I had litte "success." I was sure that at least Wiktionary would give me more. This is how they define it:
- (Obsolete) Something which happens as a consequece; the outcome or result. (16th - 18th c.)
- The achievemnet of one's aim or goal. (from 16th c,)
- (Business) financial profitablity.
- One who, or that which, achieves assumed goals.
If the linguists have difficulty
in defining success, is there any wonder that we do too? Nevertheless there is one common thread in
the definitions. They seem to center on a desired outcome or goal. I am convinced that pastors need to have
clear defined goals, and we will be addressing that next week, the problem is not
the goals themselves, but the deeper value behind the goal. For example, it is appropriate to have a goal
of numerical growth in your church. That
is an indicator of healthy church. But
it is not okay to find our value or worth in the number of people in our
church.
Our true motivation behind any
goal is seen most clearly when either the goal is met, or is not. My true motivation was revealed when someone would
ask about my church with the standard question rooted in the number of “nickels
and noses.” In most cases there were
not enough people in the church and I felt a sense of embarrassment or anger at
the one who asked it. When there was
growth and I was feeling good about it, I was keenly aware of my pride. Either way, what happened to my heart was not
spiritually healthy and revealed who really mattered in my ministry. In other words we struggle most with success when
it is more about us, then God and His people. To use the idol imagery, our goals are far too
often tied to our idols. Therefore, if
we meet those goals that idols satisfies us, but if we don’t meet our goal we
get angry and discouraged.
So how do we free ourselves from
the success trap? First we must
understand that any success that we may get is not our success. Our lives are rooted in grace from beginning
to end! Christ has been successful and
we in turn get to share in His success! There
would be no true success if it weren’t for the finished work of Christ. With that in mind, I would suggest that you
pause and ask yourself what you want to be remembered for when they lay your
body in a grave. How will people
remember you? Did they see the grace of
God in your life? Was it all about you, or all about the Gospel?
Living with the end in mind, my
life should be considered a success when through God’s Grace I was faithful in
the following areas.
1.
I was a sincere worshipper. My life
was marked by a love for God, and people saw me resting in the Gospel, rather
than chasing after idols?
2.
I loved my wife well, and she a better person
because of that.
3.
I loved my son and he saw his dad love Jesus
more than anything else, including the church and ministry.
4.
I was a faithful preacher and teacher of God’s
word and I never quit believing that it is God’s Word and a precious means of
grace.
5.
I served Christ and His Church faithfully to end,
and did not leave a trail of damaged people because of my selfish pursuits.
6.
People come to faith as result of my life and
ministry, and I was a faithful evangelist.
“But
seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness,
and all these things will be added to you.”
Matthew 6:33
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